Dear Worried and Guilty, It's called mommy guilt and is perfectly normal.  Very few moms feel zen with where they are in their lives as a mother.  Most feel like they don't have enough time with each apart or together. Relax - think of it as an extra pair of loving arms.  They will never remember this.  And their greatest gift is a happy,healthy,balanced mom. Just make sure you take pictures with them so they are none the wiser. Read more [...]